life's a bitch.
I was on the way to woodlands frm my job interview at lavender when i saw this very sweet couple, right infront of my eyes.
It wasnt some teenager or whatsoever not, it was an old elderly couple but they looked so loving. From one look, i knew they're ageing bt cn clearly see that their love is still so strong. What touched me was that, the lady was already wheelchair bound yet the spouse cared about her so much. Despite whatever disabilities she was facing, it seems that the husband never fails to neglect her. He pushed her around in the train cabin, finding a spacious spot so as to make the lady comfortable. The conversations that they had, it truly shows that they're happy being together.
Then i thought to myself, this is how true love supposed to be. In today's world, its so hard to find such love. Love that never fades till we grow old. And even when we've grown old and become disabled, there's always a possibility of your partner leaving you, thus this scenario almost brought tears to my eyes. I dnt knw what came up to me. I was just pondering on this, and what happens if your spouse passed away, there'll be no one else that you could confide to anymore. I was just picturing myself in the situation, would i be strong enough to go through that. I knew I was thinking too far bt it is something that i will face it, someday. This thought brought me to some other occassions, one about my grandma whom husband already passed away. And seeing her teared every hari raya, remembering her husband, showed how tough it was to get over the fact tht her spouse is no longer there, thou it has already been few years. Another one, was my friend's grandma who was leaving alone. When she shared her stories abt her life with me, she cried esp the part after her husband death. Unfortunately, both death came so sudden. I can still remember vividly what she said about life after her husband passed away, now no one looks after her, even thou the fact that she have kids, her kids are always busy with their lives etc. It must be very though for her. For that, i admire her strength to be strong for her grandchildrn etc. Now, she's no longer here, im sure that she's happy being up there.
Sometimes, even when you have love, it could hurt so much, yet when you couldnt find love, it feels that you're missing something in your life. Contradicting much.
loves,
saf.
It wasnt some teenager or whatsoever not, it was an old elderly couple but they looked so loving. From one look, i knew they're ageing bt cn clearly see that their love is still so strong. What touched me was that, the lady was already wheelchair bound yet the spouse cared about her so much. Despite whatever disabilities she was facing, it seems that the husband never fails to neglect her. He pushed her around in the train cabin, finding a spacious spot so as to make the lady comfortable. The conversations that they had, it truly shows that they're happy being together.
Then i thought to myself, this is how true love supposed to be. In today's world, its so hard to find such love. Love that never fades till we grow old. And even when we've grown old and become disabled, there's always a possibility of your partner leaving you, thus this scenario almost brought tears to my eyes. I dnt knw what came up to me. I was just pondering on this, and what happens if your spouse passed away, there'll be no one else that you could confide to anymore. I was just picturing myself in the situation, would i be strong enough to go through that. I knew I was thinking too far bt it is something that i will face it, someday. This thought brought me to some other occassions, one about my grandma whom husband already passed away. And seeing her teared every hari raya, remembering her husband, showed how tough it was to get over the fact tht her spouse is no longer there, thou it has already been few years. Another one, was my friend's grandma who was leaving alone. When she shared her stories abt her life with me, she cried esp the part after her husband death. Unfortunately, both death came so sudden. I can still remember vividly what she said about life after her husband passed away, now no one looks after her, even thou the fact that she have kids, her kids are always busy with their lives etc. It must be very though for her. For that, i admire her strength to be strong for her grandchildrn etc. Now, she's no longer here, im sure that she's happy being up there.
Sometimes, even when you have love, it could hurt so much, yet when you couldnt find love, it feels that you're missing something in your life. Contradicting much.
loves,
saf.
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