whats happening?

i just saw my senior who is a year older than me the other day. Thou we never spoke to each other, im sure we could recognize ea other. Oh and guess what, she's pregnant.

And i had my kendarat last sun, one of the staff, same age as me. Also, pregnant. Apparently, she's married last year.

Gosh im wondering whats happening to the girls nowadays.

What is it with early pregnancy and early marriage? Not that ive anything against them, bt isnt it too early? Dont you want to achieve something in life first, before even settling down? Anyway, marriage is supposed to be a forever thing, so why get into it at such an early stage when u can spent yr life forever with the person afterwords, not literary thou. Bt still..

So, anyone, tell me, what so interesting abt settling dwn tht early?

I do believe in love. Bt being in love doesnt mean to have to get married tht early. If a guy truly love you fr who you are, then im sure he can wait. Im sure, he wouldnt even want t settle dwn fast esp if he's nt financially stable. Im sure he would wnt t be the best bfore even settling down with you because obviously he wants to be the best fr you and i thought tht should be the way. Obviously, marriage is suppose to be sacred and special. It should only happens once in your life with your only one. If marriage is something thats so common to an individual e.g. divorce, marriage repetitively, then the true meaning of it is no longer there. Also, it means commitment and responsibility. Its nt just abt two person being in love and together. There's other means to consider as well. At times i wonder, what makes them think they have enough religious knowledge and experiences as well as to be a parent. I mean, having a newborn is a big factor. Whatever tht you teach or you dont, you have t hear the consequences. Ive witness of course, this happening and true enough, it isnt something pleasant to go through.

Okay enough of my rants.

loves,
saf.

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